turns the sting of fetishization into a defiant disco anthem
This isn’t just about being objectified—it’s about being overlooked. It’s for anyone who’s ever been desired behind closed doors but dismissed in the daylight. For anyone seen as a fantasy or stereotype instead of someone real.
Blending shimmering 80s-inspired production with cutting, emotionally honest lyrics, Invisible to You captures the loneliness of being wanted for how you look—but never for who you are. Fans of Robyn’s “Dancing On My Own” and Chappell Roan’s “Good Luck, Babe!” will feel at home, but this story is entirely Fedge’s own.

“At first, I thought this song was just about one guy who made me feel small. But the more I wrote, the more I saw a pattern—how I kept shrinking myself to fit what other people were willing to hold. Not too loud. Not too soft. Just enough to be wanted, but never enough to be chosen. This song helped me reclaim the parts of me I had learned to tuck away,” - Fedge
Over pulsing synths and a hypnotic hook, Fedge paints the ache of being desired, but only in secret. Lines like “Exotic for you, erotic for you / Don’t wanna be a narcotic for you” slice through the glitter, calling out the way queerness and race are often commodified or sidelined.
Invisible to You follows Fedge’s debut single Too Early, Too Late, which explored misaligned timing and emotional regret through tender synth-pop. With this new release, he shifts from heartbreak to confrontation—continuing a narrative arc of visibility, vulnerability, and self-worth that builds toward his debut EP, Through It All, arriving this fall.
But as with all of Fedge’s music, pain becomes power. Invisible to You is a sad song—but one meant to be danced to, screamed with, and reclaimed.
Artist bio:
Fedge is a queer Taiwanese American songwriter and storyteller based in San Francisco. His music fuses glittering synth-pop with gut-wrenching truth, inspired by artists like Chappell Roan and Troye Sivan. With emotionally honest lyrics and cinematic production, Fedge explores themes of queerness, identity, heartbreak, and healing. His forthcoming debut EP, Through It All, continues the narrative introduced by his first two singles, “Too Early, Too Late” and “Invisible to You”—shaping a body of work rooted in vulnerability, self-worth, and the kind of empowerment that comes from finally standing up for yourself.